The Quiet Holders

For the Babies Held
Only in Our Hearts

Sacred ceremonies, grief circles, and healing retreats for women honouring pregnancy loss, miscarriage, and the silent grief that is so often carried alone.

You grieved because you loved. That love deserves to be witnessed.

The vision

Grief this sacred deserves a ceremony

When a baby is lost — to miscarriage, stillbirth, or the quiet grief of a pregnancy that never was — there is often no ritual. No witness. No space to say hello, and goodbye, and you mattered.

Danielle knows this grief from the inside. It is why The Quiet Holders was born. These retreats are built around something she is designing from lived experience — a ceremony for honouring the babies we carried, however briefly, and the mothers who carry them still.

This is not therapy. It is something older than that. It is ritual, witness, and the kind of holding that only comes from being in a room full of women who understand.

The Quiet Holders Retreat — women gathering to heal and reconnect

Danielle's signature offering

The Ceremony

A sacred, unique ceremony designed by Danielle — to honour the baby, hold the mother, and give grief the witnessing it was never offered.

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Honour

Each ceremony creates space to acknowledge the baby — their existence, their name if you have one, and the love that remains. Nothing is bypassed. Everything is welcomed.

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Release

Through breathwork, gentle movement, and Havening, we work with the body — because grief lives there. The body needs ceremony just as much as the heart does.

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Become

You leave having been witnessed. With something tangible to carry forward — a ritual, a symbol, a sense that your grief has a rightful place in the world.

The ceremony is currently being designed. Danielle is also studying breathwork and birth to deepen this work. Dates will be announced to the community first.

How we gather

Retreat Formats

From a morning together to a full weekend away — each format holds the same intention. You choose what you are ready for.

Half Day

A Ceremony of Remembrance

A morning or afternoon held in sacred space. Guided ceremony, grief circle, oracle cards, and a closing ritual. Intimate — up to 8 women.

  • Danielle's ceremony
  • Grief sharing circle
  • Oracle card practice
  • Closing ritual
Full Day

The Full Holding

The complete experience. Ceremony, Havening for emotional release, breathwork, shared nourishment, story circles, and rest. A day that changes something.

  • Ceremony
  • Havening Techniques®
  • Breathwork
  • Story circle
  • Shared meal
Weekend Overnight

The Quiet Holders Retreat

An overnight or full weekend away — nature-based, unhurried, and deeply restorative. For those ready to go all the way in.

  • All of the above
  • Private sessions with Danielle
  • Guided meditation
  • Nature & stillness
  • Connection with like-hearted women

Who comes

These spaces are for you if...

You have experienced miscarriage, stillbirth, or pregnancy loss — recently or years ago
You never had a ceremony or ritual to honour your baby
You carry a grief that others don't fully acknowledge or understand
You have experienced birth trauma and your body still holds it
You are a mother navigating the complexity of loving a baby you didn't get to keep
You are ready — even just a little — to let yourself be held
You are a carer, nurse, or space holder who needs space held for you
“Back then, miscarriage felt like a silent loss. Something women endured quietly. There were no real conversations — no space held for the heartbreak of losing a baby you had already begun loving. These retreats are that space.”
— Danielle Brierley

Also available

Becoming a Quiet Holder

For carers, nurses, and space holders who need to be held themselves.

The Body Remembers

Nervous system healing — how to regulate, release, and restore after trauma.

Somewhere In Between

For grief without a name. For the exhausted. For those navigating change.

Be the first to know

Retreat Dates Coming Soon

Dates and locations are announced to The Quiet Holders community first. Register your interest and Danielle will reach out personally when the first retreat is ready.

You don't have to be ready. You just have to be curious.

Client Experiences

Kind Words

5.0 · Google Reviews

I can highly recommend Danielle for Havening. I have had many different sessions now with her. The most amazing life changing experience I had was my session on Grief. Thank you Danielle.

Havening Client

Havening — Grief Session

I had the most amazing massage this week with the talented Danielle Brierley. My whole body went into a deep relaxation while she worked her magic on me. I floated out the door and I am so looking forward to my next session.

Jodie Smart

Massage Therapy

Loved my experience with Danielle! She came to my workplace where I received a massage and also Havening techniques. Not only does my body feel a lot more relaxed and not as sore or tight, I also feel so much better in myself.

Massage & Havening Client

Massage & Havening

I cannot recommend Danielle enough! We have had a few sessions of Havening together and after each one I am left feeling so calm, refreshed, and euphoric. I highly suggest you try Havening with Danielle.

Havening Client

Havening Techniques®

I've been seeing Danielle for a few years now and cannot recommend her highly enough! I started seeing her for pregnancy massages and now I see her to fix all my muscle aches and pains. I leave feeling like I'm floating on a cloud every time and I won't ever see anyone else!

Pregnancy & Ongoing Client

Pregnancy & Relaxation Massage

Dani really knows how to get the best massage for your body. I walk out feeling amazing. Today I also added a foot massage — I already feel like I am walking better, no tension in my feet. Amazing! Thank you Dani.

Relaxation & Foot Massage Client

Relaxation & Foot Massage

Danielle is a very skilled and intuitive Havening Techniques Practitioner. Her knowledge and experience woven into a gentle and kind manner enabled me to heal from a difficult situation that had influenced me for years.

Havening Client

Havening Techniques®

Highly recommend Danielle! An amazing massage therapist who ensures you feel as comfortable and relaxed as possible whilst alleviating all of your stresses. Extremely professional, welcoming, and accommodating to all needs.

Elysium Accounting

Massage Therapy

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